From the order we order at the restaurant to the workout we do at the gym, we care a lot about what others think and shape our actions accordingly.
“Will they judge me?”
“Will they think I’m stupid?”
With a thousand and one foxes in our minds, we spend that precious energy guessing what other people think. Well done to us! How much are our lives affected, and how does our path change to gain beautiful adjectives in his eyes?
The solution is easy, but it is also problematic, we know. We wanted to remind you of the beauties you will embrace when you achieve this. If you’re ready, here we go.
You will feel free!
Not caring about how others see you, your decisions, choices, and behaviors… The greatest freedom we can achieve in this temporary world: Being yourself without any protection, additives, or predicament… The pleasure of being yourself, from how you dress to the path you draw for your career...
All possibilities will unfold when you truly become “you” and break the link between the thoughts of others and your choices.
Human relations will be strengthened.
When you start making choices without caring about what other people think, people will have the opportunity to see the “real you”. This reality, believe me, is dazzling. It will allow them to see the original color in that simplicity, free from masks. All this sincerity will reflect on your relationships and return to you as happiness in the long run.
You will discover what you want to achieve.
Your personal goals and passions will come to the fore when the opinions of Ali, Ayşe, and your neighbor become unimportant. Imagine society’s judgments as a burden that traps your dreams in the inaccessible depths of the ocean. Everything about you will be visible when you choose not to carry that burden. Whatever you expect to discover will be revealed to you. Your purpose for coming into this life, your greatest passion…
The stress in your life will decrease.
Do you know what the most tiring thing in the world is? Pretending to be someone you’re not.
Stress will melt away when you become yourself. Until that day, you will realize that pretending to be someone else creates unnecessary stress in your soul. As if your lungs were half filled with the smoke of that stress, you started to breathe for the first time.
It won’t matter that much if someone doesn’t like you.
“I’d better be more intellectual.
It would be better if I were a more fun person.
I’d better be calmer and relaxed.
It will be better if I am more lively and cheerful.
If I were more like this, it would be like this.”
No one will approve of you. Someone will find out what you did wrong. Someone will think you are a very complacent person. Some people will think you’re too talkative. Some say that you are too sneaky… Some will even make fun of you. This will always happen whether you want it or not. Main question; Who will you be in the face of all this?
When you keep your focus on yourself, you will take away the power of other people to beat you up in one fell swoop!