Sometimes we can become disconnected from our inner voice, while simultaneously running out of air for the hopes, expectations, or dreams of others. Here are six things to remember in times like this!
Recognize that negative comments about someone else are not about you, but them!
He is the source of every word that comes out of someone’s mouth or heart. His judgments, criticisms, cruelty, and coldness are all his. You don’t have to be cold by the wind blowing through your words. Don’t let it rain on you. The clouds are his childhood; the lightning is his wounds… His toxic air should not overshadow the sun or pollute the water… The sky is as blue as possible in your world, and the spring kisses the ground peacefully. Turn your face towards the sun. Let her darkness be hers.
This is it; It’s not all about you, it’s about him!
First, be honest with yourself!
Do not hide your true self! Take what you have and pour it out like this. Your weak, fragile places… Your wounds, your resentments… Your tears, your joys… They are all yours; they all belong to you. Either you’ll accept it or you’ll transform. Both are possible.. It’s not about being afraid to look at yourself naked.
Remember, you are only born once
They say what they think about it, and they believe it! It’s easy to label and ridicule! Be yourself; you can’t be accused of sin if you don’t get tested.
Every moment is unique. You can’t make your world look the way you want it to.
The worst case scenario is the one you want! It could be anything!
What could possibly go wrong?
You are not abandoned, neglected, or loved. There is no death at end. The sun rises again and there is a new path. It can be worse! Tomorrow is a new day.
Eliminate negative emotions from your life.
He who speaks the language. He does not know where he is. It is up to you to not hear. You can’t shrink the mouth of the nation! Your mouth should be full of beauty. Avoid dark environments and people that can make you feel drained. Take care of your beauty!
It’s okay to admit it. Not everyone needs to like you.
Fear of being rejected is always a concern. Permeating like a bright pitch, you are constantly questioning every move you make. Your self-imposed shackles are a constant reminder of your limitations. The most magnificent prison you can see on earth… The light of your eyes, the light of your heart in every part of it… Don’t do this to yourself!
Let it not love—these days of captivity. It is not something that I like. It’s right. You are more loved. You should love yourself more when you think that you don’t deserve it. Honoring nature, spring, freedom, and love!
“I never apologize to be myself. If you think I am someone else, then you should apologize. -Michael Carlini